Seven Secrets

About Seven Secrets

The Seven Secrets of Meaningful Hospitality moves beyond outdated diversity training into something more universal: inclusion, accessibility, and belonging for everyone.

Grounded in research across all 17 human factors, traits, and conditions that impact the experience of hospitality, it is rooted in two universal human experiences: the experience of feeling misunderstood and the comfort of belonging.

Seven practical principles give teams a shared language and skill set to engage more respectfully and helpfully with everyone — regardless of identity, needs, or perspective.

Research

We identified the 17 factors, traits, and conditions that impact hospitality and conducted extensive interviews across those identities.

From those insights, we reverse-engineered the Seven Principles — a framework for interacting with everyone more thoughtfully and effectively.

The 17 Factors, Traits, and Conditions

  • Mobility Disability
  • Vision Disability
  • Hearing Disability
  • Speech Disability
  • Sensory Processing Disability
  • Gender
  • Age
  • Race / Skin Color
  • Ethnicity / National Origin
  • Neurodiversity
  • Relationship / Family / Caregiver Status
  • Sexual Orientation
  • Body Size
  • Physical Appearance
  • Health Status
  • Religion
  • Service Animal or Pet Companion

The Seven Principles

Reject Preconceptions

Overcome autopilot thinking for authentic connection.

Be Curious

Activate helpful curiosity to better understand guest perspectives.

Honor Autonomy

Respect personal space, privacy, and decision-making autonomy.

Team Guest

Make people feel that you’re on their side.

Craft Connections

Foster empathetic interactions to enhance guest experience.

Accommodate Uniqueness

Recognize and adapt to different guest needs.

Grow Impact

Activate these principles for daily use and consistent improvement.

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